Attentional Avoidance –
a self reinforcing
feedback loop
There are at least three
inter-related feedback loops that strengthen the child’s conditioned
attentional avoidance of homework.
First, over time, due to
negative reinforcement, they learn to fantasize sooner, better, and more
automatically. They effectively develop greater protection from the
unpleasant feelings they used to get from math.
Negative reinforcement is
an often-misunderstood concept. Unlike common usage, it is not
equivalent to punishment. It is like lying on the beach in the sun
until you are very hot and uncomfortable, then terminating this aversive
overheating, by running into the cold water. This temperature change
feels good. This positive feeling of cooling off reinforces running
into the water when you become too hot. Therefore, negative reinforcement
is the cessation of aversive stimuli. In contrast to the aversion, is
experienced as a positive or reinforcing change.
Second, the refinement of
attentional avoidance further reduces a child’s awareness of, and
participation in, school or homework. The child eventually begins to
slip involuntarily into conditioned attentional avoidance and, as a
result, he spends more and more time in his “own little world.” Thus he
learns less and falls further and further behind. This brings more
negative feedback and thus makes avoidance much more negatively
reinforcing. An ever quickening downward spiral develops.
Third, the teacher and
parent are shaped into being more demanding and coercive. This happens
because the child is usually more attentive for a few moments after an
adult intervention, which reinforces the adult’s coercive behavior. This
short-term success shapes increasing long-term negativity in the parent’s
response to the child, though they usually do not intend this.
The increased
unpleasantness of the parent’s responses to the child make avoiding the
homework even more negatively reinforcing for the child. This further
powers the child’s increasing attentional avoidance. The very efforts of
adults to solve the attentional problems make it worse, and thus the ADHD
gets worse when adults try to fix it in the wrong way. There well
intentioned efforts backfire.
ADHD: A Path To Success
First Sentence: With terror in my heart, I can still remember sitting in emotional and almost physical pain at Palm Elementary School in Beaumont, California.
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